Responsibility for your own life

Introduction:

Our brain automatically tries to find excuses for things we don't wanna do 24/7 which is the reason why so many lack discipline and the confidence that comes with it.

I struggled by myself a lot with this and I'm in a whole different mood when I remind myself that I´m the only author and "main character" (tt members know lol) in my life.

What you need to know:

It's so so easy to make excuse for things we don't feel like doing and of course as I described in my other articles it's important to find he right balance again between that so you don't beat yourself up constantly without any breaks.

You need to take care of yourself which also includes doing what the fuck you want and what you feel like.

But sometimes especially when it comes to responsibility it's necessary to do things we maybe don't feel like doing in that moment.

What often ppl don't understand is that you can't blame your parents, your circumstances, your peer group (you have full responsibility to pick them by yourself) or any other external things on how your life is going.

Of course that's logical that we've been influenced by a lot of things and we also have learned some stuff but as we become older we need to realize that we need to take care of our own life instead of searching for reasons why it isn't that way we want it to be.

Referring to the law of attraction there's a simple grafic abt your current situation and where you wanna be. It's abt changing your subconsciousness so you 1.Think, 2. Belief, 3. Behave, 4. Feel the way that serves you to live the life you wanna live.

Self-responsibility comes when you start to realize that you always have power over yourself even when you think you don't have.

You can't always control what happens on this earth but you can control your reaction.

So no matter what you've learned, how you grew up there's always a positive way out.

There's this famous story abt 2 brothers who grew up in the same house. I´m not going into detail but their childhood wasn't great...

Later journalists reported abt the 2 brothers. One of them was incredibly happy, had a family, a nice job, house, they were healthy etc. and he said "According to my childhood how can I not be like that cause I´ve learned I don't wanna repeat the same mistakes"..

The other brother was completely fucked up. He lost control over his life and said "how could I be not like that concerning to my childhood".

The same circumstances but 2 complete different way to look at it. I love this story bcs no matter what happens there's always a good way out. We just need to see, understand it and change our belief system abt it.

This is daily work and again that doesn't happen in a few days but the results are much more important than the work you need to put in.

Doing sth you don't wanna do like eating healthy or going to the gym (at the beginning bcs you not used to it it´s clearly difficult but it gets easier after the time) is strength. But it's also strength to know your desires and to give them enough attention to avoid burn outs.

Gratitude also has helped me to take more responsibility for my emotions, reactions and behavior that doesn't mean it's my FAULT that I feel like that but it's my RESPONSIBILITY to change it to a healthy way.

As soon as you get the point that you are in control every single minute, second and day you start to shift your life.

Ppl say for example " oh I only attract negative and toxic ppl or things. Why does this always happen to me" instead of saying "There's a reason why I've attracted that what's the unhealed part of myself I can improve. What can I do to appreciate more what I have?".

So how your respond to things is key... <3

Complaining gets you no where but in a negative, depressed and unmotivated mood but it you start to see it positive and as changes to grow and to become a better version of yourself you become a whole different person I guarantee!!!

Start saying you're in control every day to yourself (I'll explain why I do Affirmations too and it's effects) and your day will change. I promise.

You can learn from every person, situation, circumstance and so much more.

Everything is just as good or bad as you make it.

You can simply see that when meeting with friends and you come to a situation where one person is completely calm and still and the other one is stressed out. Ppl say that it's their parents fault for not raising them right or blame teachers everything they can find instead of taking it as an opportunity to grow.

What we've learned from this lil perspective is that's always our choice how to respond and that we can take full responsibility of our lives.

There's no pointing on others. I can tell you the more you work on yourself and concentrate on your own shit instead of talking abt others (newspaper, celebrities etc.-absolutely boring for me now) you will start to grow.

As soon as you've achieved how to understand the concept of responsibility not only you and ppl respect you more but you also make healthier relationships bcs you stop to blame anyone.

It's just everyone dealing with their shit. You help each other. But on the way to self-improvement there's no way for unnecessary drama.

More supportive, calm and positive energy.

Lemme know if you (like I mention always heh) want me to talk abt that on my YT or text me your experience.