It‘s funny that there‘s no right or wrong path and yet we worry abt it so much.

I think this comes from a place of huge criticism where we always find sth to blat on no matter how much we try.

No matter what we do even when we ppl please 24/7 (which is literally pure waste of our own life and personality) there‘ll be still opinions on „how to do better“. No bullshit.

Everyone is on their journey and the striving for a better self is great but thinking that when we‘ve reached this we‘ll be happy in the longterm isn‘t the answer.

No matter where u are, what u do. U decide if you‘re positive/ happy (yea depression, hormons, circumstances whatever I know but I speak abt the attitude that comes after or with it) or not. U decide how ur life is gonna look like ur the writer.

Maybe u can’t influence 100% but you can choose how u react even tho u need to take ur time out with that.

Sit still, breathe then u can choose how u react by accepting how u already do react.

The funny thing is that I can get 19628 advices and yet I still need to listen to myself in order to fulfill my own journey.

Everything I need I already have. Everything I want is already there.

When I‘m open to receive and attract bcs I just trust and don’t overworry then so many amazing things can happen.

The funny thing is also that we can get everything we want. We can be whoever we want to be. This is sth we can be SO frkn grateful for.

Even tho I‘m afraid to just be myself cause I know we all have unreal huge potential that we can‘t even see yet.

I know I could do so much and yet I‘m afraid to start bcs I‘ve never been there of course.

I don‘t know if that‘s my path or society’s, the path that I have been told to go and I don‘t realize these aren‘t my words and so on...

The more I wait the higher my standards become bcs I try to compensate it.

But instead being in a place of self-love, admiration and respect towards my body and mind heals SO much.

Having trust in the universe and striving for your own standards may sound easy but when it comes to taking action I still don‘t know what to do.

Like following ur heart, listen to ur brain. What part of it is even ur thoughts? Also listen to other ppl? No matter how long I think abt it or how often I try to do the best it‘ll never be enough to be perfect. And that‘s great bcs perfect doesn‘t exist it‘s sth that our mind creates based on our values and experiences and that varies from person to person too. Realizing I'm already where I need to be.

So instead of constantly worrying what would be right and constantly reaching out for oppinions... why not listening to our gut and enjoy our own life? Like god damn we‘re so young even tho when age is just an illusion like time and u can literally be 16 at the age of 92 in your mind and also bodywise extreme fit.

I mean don’t we get the wonderful gift of life to go after our passion, to be our own best version, spreading love, making a positive impact on earth, enjoying it, „being happy“ literally and just focus on making the best of it. Everyone has their own life purpose cause there‘s is no one right path. And that‘s great and it shouldn‘t be how boring would that be if everyone strives for the same? There would be no life literally. As long as we can live peaceful together..

Everyone gives meaning to differennt things based on their values.

So why not being true to ourselves and truly learn by our own?

I know cause we‘re afraid.. it‘s easier to blame instead of taking responsibility sure but that won‘t fulfill us.

Avoiding mistakes prevents from growth even tho we might think what would happen. We don‘t need to play dumb.

But staying open and trying stuff more often is just so important I guess.

We got experience for a reason and we shouldn‘t forget everything but not doing sth bcs we‘re afraid of the unknown is different than predicting outcomes based on theoretical, rational thinking.

The magic happens when we actually grow.

When we actually allow ourselves to not look „perfect“ rn cause we‘re humans and we make mistakes that‘s how we learn.

Not by thinking it 24/7 away and thinking it‘s right or wrong even tho we have experience.

It‘s when u’ve raised ur hand in class asking that question no one did bcs of insecurity or self- blame reasons and everyone thanked u for it bcs they didn‘t get it either.

That‘s not only amazing to be honest with yourself and not afraid of learning it‘s also needed.

I especially realized that shit when I had low confidence and I was afraid of making mistakes.

I don‘t learn as much as I could when I‘m not honest with myself.

The 2 seconds (even if it was a question that maybe others get which is still no excuse for not asking) u maybe feel uncomfortable but the „aha“ effect after it is so much more worth it.

Maybe school hasn‘t taught us stuff that we really need also in life like taxes etc but the journey, the communication with others and all that has taught me sm. Not the theoretical topics we've been thought but how I managed the journey.

So is life I guess it‘s not so important what u do exactly but what u make out of it and if you‘re in peace with yourself doing that.

If u can grow from it, experience and enjoy.

Maybe we can just release pressure of that and imagine it as a journey like we did in school.

There‘re ups and downs and things may go different than we did plan it but what comes after it was so much more worth it.

When there‘s the need to better ourselves that’s great but living after an expectation to be a person that everyone would like bcs ur fulfilling everybodys standards it‘s just not a permament solution. And still then some ppl will always find reasons to complain or find "mistakes" in you bcs they just don‘t like u, they don't like themselves or you trigger sth inside them they haven´t healed yet...

Quarantine time helps a lot to just connect to myself and my soul.

Bcs I can not distract myself sm anymore (expect phone and tv eh) I get to know myself more with being alone.

I hear my own inside voice guiding me to the right path. And I know it‘s the right path bcs it‘s mine.

That‘s when I really can feel that´s "right".

I don‘t need to pls ppl and all this poor energy thinking just flows away bcs I listen to my soul and heart.

Being rational is important sometimes too especially when it comes to deciding serious stuff.

But when it comes to life I wanna live it with fulfillment, joy and happienes instead of just being like a stone in a human body following rules and being detached to everything as well as not showing emotions at all.

Cause that‘s not what humans are. We‘re spiritual energy full of empathy. And I think we‘re here to love each other, work together, lift each other up and take care of ourselves and our home.

I respected ppl who don‘t show emotions who were rational (again this is important for some stuff) but when it comes to living life ppl who enjoy the journey, just live in the moment, who are thankful for everything are just more fitting into the values of my soul.

Knowing when to be emotional detached and when to just live ur life is key I guess.

Not taking life too seriously, staying present, being so grateful. Also I remind myself to realize how far I already came also appreciating it bcs I wouldn‘t have thought back then to be where I am rn so this makes me also so excited abt the future rather than being afraid.

Everyone interprets this different in their own way and I think we just let each other live (as long as there’re no victims or massive neg consequences-veganism disclaimer) by giving advice, helping each other out, spreading high vibrational gratitude and loving energy and just enjoy our time.

That‘s what my souls says and I know it‘s right for me cause it‘s my path.

If ur not ok with that live ur life and let it go but I think we should just stop having expectations in other ppl and wanting them to be someone they‘re not or making them believe sth is wrong with them.

Advice is good but when it‘s used for changing someone so much that there’s no positive energy left and they forget who they are in their heart it‘s just a no. And very often we´re our worst hater (at least that's the case with me).

That's why its so important to remember who u are and not to settle for less or pretending to be someone we´r not. This is also different from affirmations where we try to change our inside belief systems abt ourselves in order to attract what we want at the same time being it.

So this is no advice this is just my point of view. And I just think we‘d live in a way more peaceful and happy way when we live after the motto spreading love&support each other and u do u. ❤️

Also it‘s kind of narcissistic to think someones believes or way of thinking is the right one...

Anwaysss love urself and embrace what makes you u 🙌🏻

loooveeeee