My statement job wise / dreams and life goals

This is just what I've experienced and I think we should chase our dreams while being realistic. Ppl so often judge each other by titles which is just dumb cause you never truly know what's behind someones story.

There're ppl with doctor titles who don't even know the basic nutrition stuff which is extremely needed referring to health it's basically medicine.

You can't even blame them bcs it isn't even part of their education (questioning the education system again but anyways).

This is just a simple example but those which seem to know stuff abt a certain object are just ppl. Those who seem to be " intelligent" can't even do basic daily things.

Those who seem normal often have very wise advice or are amazingly disciplined. Even highly intelligent ppl can seem dumb. You can fake everything or just show the parts you want.

There's so much more to know abt every single person. We can't just judge them by their job, education, or where they come from. Often ppl have high potential but they never use it.

When you think you are over someone it's just sad bcs you are so insecure abt feeling connected, grounded and human like everyone else that you need to look down on others. Btw this is an insecurity not even realistic. In fact you can use everything, make it seem special and then look down on them but it's not.

I'm sry but you are just like everybody else inside.

Your worth doesn't dependent on a job, money or materialistic stuff. I like to put worth on how good hearted ppl are and their intentions but I also try to understand that not everyone has learned that so I also try not to separate so much.

So when it comes to jobs it's so important to always try sth new no fkn matter how old you are this is just an excuse of not wanting it and staying in comfort zone.

It's not human to do the same thing 40 years at the same place. Maybe the minimum loves that but we need to grow mentally, spiritually and physically.

It's a basic human need to explore and to get excited by new things. Look at kids they are often so happy bcs they fulfill their needs. Just after time they learn to adapt to society and that isn't a bad thing when it's done in moderation.

If you do a job to impress others you don't really live. You live for others and die for no one. You don't use the gift of live. Again it's also a social human need to get appreciation don't get me wrong.

I just want that we understand we are not our jobs, our financial situation, our environment, our friends or family, where we grew up, our past...

We´re so much more.

Last time I was kinda in a bad mood but I also wrote this text abt jobs etc:

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Maybe we’re depressed bcs we don’t do what fulfills our heart

Just bcs sometimes we do a job to earn money with the intention of earning money doesn’t mean we don’t wanna fulfill my dreams.

But having a secure foundation is important in order to do more for example moving to a place with more opportunities.

If you’re broke that’s shitty bcs even if that is an amazing opportunity you sometimes just need money.

Ppl don’t talk abt money often and I don’t think we should tell everyone abt our financial situation either but it’s relevant to be aware of what we can do with it.

Life shouldn’t be surviving it’s living your dream.

But you don’t wake up rich (mostly).

Having an open mind and understanding that they’re 196287 ways to get to your destination is gold but you’re human too you wanna do stuff sometimes.

I have several things I wanna do in the future but I also wanna “survive” my my own.

Having support is great but bcs independency is one of my goals I wanna earn money by my own.

Everyone has a different journey and priorities. So it’s important to accept each others and appreciate it cause you never know what’s behind that. Where they went throught to get to that point.

Being a lil hard and at the same time loving and kind to yourself makes you achieve great things.You don’t search for excuses you just do stuff.

Never judge ppl bcs of their financial situation cause even Eminem was born in a slum.

Life is what you make it and he for example just prioritize stuff instead of searching for excuses why things couldn’t work.

No he actually thought in his unconscious mind he can do it. That’s were the magic is.

He just did.

It’s so basic but true.

You never know where someone will be. Treating each other with kindness and respect should be the basic thing you learn as a kid but after time we create visions in our head out of our personal experience.

And that’s it. Personal. Ppl try to categorize and using jobs, family as a secure place instead of creating this place in their mind.

And I get it it’s not easy but easy doesn’t always mean right for you.

We use that in order to get a clearer picture that’s human but you limit your own potential.

You can’t generalize a thing. So just remember to always stay open and as nonjudgmental as possible.

A person only achieve as much as she/he think can do. Oftentimes other ppl encourage them and make them see their own potential.

But you decide who you wanna be in life.

You can be yourself and still working towards the one you wanna become.

Facing your stuff is important but sometimes you just need to fake a lil in order to feel good again.

Again everyone will receive that in a different way but that’s just my experience and point of view.

So do what’s best for you and don’t let yourself stop from “personal experience” from others.

Bcs it’s your life, your goals you gotta make your own experience.

Taking advice is great but don’t trust it completely.

If you trust someones advice completely you'll go another ones journey not yours.

It’s important to make your own journey while thinking objectively and logical.

Trusting a few can be helpful but remember to always widen your horizon and learn by your own.

We will say at the end maybe we could have done things differently but we can change the extent.

We all will say “oh man I could have done this or that”.

We can just try to do the things we think are right and always stay educated, open minded and question a lot.

There’s always sth new to learn we never know enough.

We can just do our own best, making our own experience, figuring out what works best for us, somehow adapting to society but still stand up for our uniqueness.

Surrounding ourselves with ppl who have the same goals is important.

Otherwise when you can’t support yourself you won’t get it from your peer group if you´ve picked the wrong ppl.

It can be a lesson to support yourself but you need the outside encouragment too.

Even when your family doesn’t support what you wanna do you need to stand up for what you want.

It’s not only important for your health but also for others.

If you happy you spread positive, encouraging energy.

If you’re not okay with yourself you spread negative energy it’s also bad for others.

So the whole ppl pleasing in theory is just in a veryyyy small amount effective.

When they’re excited abt sth it’s even harder for your unhappy self to support when you’re not okay with your own life.

It’s so important to look after yourself.

When ppl are in a bad mood it’s not your fault or responsibility. The other way round too when you're grumpy it´s not the others fault.

We can help each other but we also need to figure out life by our own.

If you’re too soft you may struggle to do daily things. Sometimes we need a kick in the ass in order to better ourselves.

We kinda just need to do shit sometimes. We grow through doing. Also thinking but it’s the healthy balance that makes it amazing.

Just live your life while being a good human being you can’t help everyone you’ll destroy yourself for that after a time. Trust me.

You come first. Care for you first. You can help ppl soooo much more when you’re happy.

Go after your dreams and goals.

Focus on spreading good energy, becoming the best version of yourself, encourage others and be a beautiful soul.

Focus on yourself and the world around you will heal.

You don’t need to change the world but yourself <33.