Living your best life

This is some things about creating the life you desire.

Starting with:

1. The importance of consistency

2. Why you can't do anything right or wrong

3. Your passion

4. Believe systems

5. The mind controls your path

1. The importance of consistency

Have you ever heard of a pianist who is very good at what he does without practicing often? I don't. Even though people say some are gifted with talent this isn't just ALL about talent.

No matter what's in your mind you want to accomplish nothing gets better without working on it. That's the harsh pill we need to swallow when we focus on our goals.

If you want to ride a bike when you're little sure you can practice sometimes, learning after a time.

But practicing even when you don't feel like it makes you stronger no matter what this is about.

3 days a week on Saturday, Thursday and Monday that doesn't matter but it matters to doing it over and over again to get security and confidence.

If you learn it by a week that's great but if it takes 3 weeks this might not be your personal gift and that´s fine. I strongly believe everyone is very good at something without knowing it already.

Beginnings are ALWAYS uncomfortable. Starting something new give you insecurity and curiosity first because you never did that right.

So focusing on goals includes not only step by step action but also one thing after another.

I realize that when I focus on 12876 goals who all have an importance not only I am overwhelmed but also my energy is limited. We don't need to underestimate ourselves but having a solid energy reserve is always a good idea.

Even with energy we can achieve more and more its like working out. Sure on the next few days you don't have much energy but it gets better after a time because you get used to it.

You just gotta find the right workout for you, your time fame etc..

Also getting used to something doesn't mean its healthy so in order to create productive and realistic goals I think not only consistency but also conviction is key here. If you not convinced you might cancel after 2 days.

This brings us to believe systems which is the reason why there is no one that can tell you how to create you dream life cause its up to what you've experienced, have learned and everything that is important for you personally.

2. Why you can't do anything right or wrong

Here´s why:

Imagine you. Being completely happy with your life.

A stranger tells you that you should live differently.

Reaction A: Thank you. Moving on.

Reaction B: Gets insecure & questions. Understands perspective. Moves on.

Reaction C: Gets insecure & questions. Overthinks. Gets lost.

No matter what life we're living its necessary to widen our horizons to learn but think about it.

You know yourself for 22 years if you're the same age like me. So why would someone even family could tell you how to live life?

Don't get me wrong I think taking care of both sides so fitting into society but also doing your thing can be pretty profitable.

But we can choose one of those reactions. Sometimes getting lost is the beginning of a change but always being lost isn't a beautiful pace to live I think.

Having direction and a sense of knowing yourself good enough to be confident about your desicions...

At that age you know what works for you, you know your mind, you know your personal desires independent from all the desires we as humans have.

We al have individual desires. For example its a humans desire to get sunlight and to move our bodies.

For me that's one of the first priorities. Which is why I want to move to a sunny place even though my home is beautiful too...

Some might need a job that makes them feel a certain way.

They want to get up at a certain time and want to go home with being allowed to have free time.

It is a human desire to have a job AND a career but for some this is more important than anything else in life and it gives them happiness, security and all those feelings because of their connection which was created in the mind to it.

Why do you love certain smells, foods etc its not because that's "logic" and this is an overall assumption that this is good no its the way it makes you feel your personal taste. And we all have that individually.

So when it comes to life and someone tell you not to study this or that and you end up being unhappy because you listened to another persons belief system. Why doing that.

It´s a Privilege to give each other advices. But not to project our personal interests on someone elses goals.

3. You passion

Your passion is what makes you feel alive. Your passion is what makes you. YOU. Passion can't be faked which is the beautiful thing about it.

Passion is individual, creative and there's no space for comparison or ego behavior.

Its about inspiration, love and doing it just because it makes you feel good.

That's something I want to have in my career.

Money, excuses, being late, people pleasing isn't part of that because your passion is pure. Your passion is what is your individual happy place.

When people ask: "Why are we here?" I would always answer: "Passion."

This is what makes you feel alive. You don't think about it. You do this and you love it.

4. Believe systems

When I am getting nervous I always remember myself: "Wait isn't that funny that everyone has a different believe system and they judge on their personal reality perception which isn't logic or a fact."

This means if you're like just walking, enjoying your life, wearing a short skirt and an old woman calls you slut that's because this woman projects A. Her insecurity or B. Her experience that girls with short skirts are sluts (lol).

This reaction is based on a belief system she has built over the years. But even though this might be true with some of her experiences this isn't a fact. Reality perceptions aren't more than a subjective, individual view.

I think social and emotional intelligent comes with life experience. So the more we connect and surround ourselves with others the more we can also learn I think. Even though alone time is needed.

But opinions aren't math 5+5=10 isn't "you're a dumb" as a fact.

It becomes a fact if you believe it, act like it, manifest that into your reality through the law of attraction and believing it..

If oppions were a fact we wouldn't be able to make changes or to learn from each other.

Believe systems are kinda funny because once you're figure out how to make you believe certain things you can literally change external not only your reality view.

This calendar quote with "everything is possible" isn't that stupid it is tue! It deepends again on what work we're able to put in.

If you believe that you're fat somewhere. You start to believe. This creates also processes you can't even influence in your conscious mind. Your body can actually change. You can change your appearance by thinking which is insane if we still don't believe our mind matters.

Any believe system you have. You can change. Some are easy others are definitely not but the possibility is there.

5. The mind controls your path

Same here. If you convince yourself you have beautiful hair for example. You gonna act like it. You show it in your appearance though throwing it back and forth, your styling etc. You will take care of your hair more because your convinced that it is beautiful and you want to take care of that.

People will react saying "what beautiful hair you have." More believes. This strengthens the actual believe.

You manifest more like idk an advertisement using your hair. This may sound silly but I think when we look at things with banal examples we can understand the meaning remember the meaning sooner again.

So whatever your mind is telling you you can change it or use it as an advantage.

Also starting to believe that the mind is our friend will help you to act like it.

We have an amazing tool that we as humans can use differently right now in tis age on this planet than others.

So if the mind doesn't have a purpose or something to concentre on we will start to look for something to focus on.

If you have a certain time for example when your mind is feed with valuable informations that's great because the other hours you can relax not using your mind constantly which gives you more simplicity.

So no matter how your dream life looks like nothing external can replace whats in your heart.

When we understand how to use the mind we can take HUGGEE advantage of that.

See ya:)