Insecurities

This can hold you back from your potential so that's also sth I wanna write abt and tell you my experience abt it (bcs again this is also very beneficial for me).

Insecurities are also not our fault but our responsibility to fix them.

Our potential is incredibly huge we just need to see it.

What it means to be insecure:

If you let yourself influence negatively by others you're not living truly your life to the best and I needed to figure that out by myself too.

I´ve realized that I lived my life so often in a certain way bcs I thought I wouldn't be accepted otherwise but this has also sth t do with self-love and independency which I already mentioned in the other article.

At the end of life you'll never say thank god good that I've lived the way to be accepted.

No you'll say god damn I'm happy that I've done the things I've wanted to do (sure there're boundaries).

So often we're not ourselves bcs we feel like we would be appreciated that way and that's bcs we don't appreciate ourselves that way. That may be uncomfortable to hear ik but it's the truth and only if ewe accept and work on it we can be our authentic self no matter what comes.

Then WE`RE IN CONTROL of our insecurities and THEY DON`T CONTROL US anymore.

Insecurities can lead to many negative things like spending time with the wrong ppl or getting the wrong job or simply accepting things that are against our values just bcs we feel so insecure abt ourselves and are afraid or rejection.

Say goodbye to your insecurities ! <3

If the insecurities go away we also start to attract strong ppl who live the same way. If we're insecure we just attract that and then we make it stronger so we hide in our comfort zone together which is just bad for everyones mental health.

Our insecurities doesn't come necessarily from us it could be that for example in our childhood ppl told us things we believed or we were forced as a kid to belief certain things but as I said earlier were in control to unlearn everything we've learned.

Insecurities doesn't help us to grow.

There's a difference between being suspicious and insecure. It's important to question things and to be critical but to be insecure abt everything is just a bad mental state to be in.

Do things that make you feel more secure.

I was often afraid of security bcs I connected that with limited thinking but that's not true.

It can actually help to expand your horizon and to get more knowledge.

Lemme know how you deal with your insecurities....