Being yourself

Every time when I'm not myself I feel down and insecure. When I try to be another person bcs I'm afraid of negative comments...

What I try to learn:

I am whore to my soul and that doesn't feel good. If ppl like me for that they like me for a wrong version that isn't even me.

So it's not always easy to be your true self if nobody knows your truly. If you always hide from ppl they don't even have a chance to get to know you.

My energy goes from 100 to 0 bcs I know deep inside I'm much better than I pretend to be.

I also know how to solve the problem. As I mentioned in my self-worth article we need to take care of our well-being.

In the moment when I realize I'm not myself it's not easy for me shift back again. I feel depressed and disconnected to my body. I'm so afraid not by the reactions I could get from others but how I would deal with it.

When I don't take care of myself I become very insecure.

So for me it's very important to do things that give me confidence to my true self in other to be my actual self again (not the one I feel safe with but the real one).

When I was little I had no problems with saying what I thought and doing what I want. As soon as ppl told me what things are wrong I start to question a lot which is good but in an extreme way it just destroys authenticity.

Surrounding yourself with those who are themselves too helps also but the main work is your part.

All we can do is prioritizing ourselves and what we want. If we stand up for ourselves nothing can hurt us!

Are you struggling with being yourself? Lemme know on the socials I'm really interested in that and different opinions.

Never make yourself less than you actually are <3

Do not play dumb when you're very intelligent.

And most importantly don't put others before you.

Much loooveeeeeee